I'm ashamed to add to this thread. My greatest achievement was when we hired this novice groomer who had incredible work ethic. She was living in a bad situation so I helped her get an apartment next to us. I wrote letters to the property management company and vouched for her. She grew with us. When we got van 3 in Vegas we took her to the grooming show and paid for everything. I signed her up for grooming seminars. I set up child care for her son and Renee and I treated her and her son like family. I gave her raises and she was doing wonderful, but she was lonely.
She met a looser, who I knew was bad news, he moved in, she got pregnant, they fell behind on the rent. I took her aside one day and said she can choose to do whatever with her life and if she wanted I could train her to be my admin and she can work from home. I also offered to pay the rent she was behind. I had one stipulation, she had to dump the looser. She looked to me as a father figure she never had.
She eventually chose the looser and they got evicted and moved to Washington state to live with his family. She had the baby and then got pregnant again. It was on this second pregnancy he put her in the hospital and was sent to jail. She contacted us to tell us all of this and ask if she could come back and work for us. I loved this girl and said we could work something out.
He got out of jail and she went back with him. We lost communication about a year or so ago. Renee was in contact with her sister who she knew on Facebook. Currently she and him are full blown meth addicts and the sister has her son and the parents of the looser have the other kids.
I know the grip that Meth has and the downward cycle, my heart is literally broken over this
