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    Default Terrible news; my wife, Gayle, passed awa Mon evening

    She had been driving to the YMCA for her morning exercise class, suffered severe chest pains, crashed into a fire hydrant which totaled her car, Rockford police and FD took her to the local hospital which handles strokes. Turns out that a torn aorta aneurism caused the stroke and was inoperable. her two sons and mine were able to get to Rockford. Her son in LA managed to arrive just minutes before she expired. That would not have been possible but for Gayles brother who in a widely respected former Chief of Police if Belvedere, IL who picked his nephew up at O'hare and drove him directly to the hospitsal at high speed on I-90.

    Gayle, who never messed about in boats untill she married me 22 years ago turned out to be great crew in my Edey & Duff yawl, the TRUE NORTH and them later in our Albin-25, the DuNord. We cruised waters from Maine, to Laguna Madre, to the coast of British Columbia.

    Gayle was much loved and admired throughout the Rockford community for her extensive efforts on behalf of community cultural assets, mainly centered on music.

    Gayle and I were best friends and deeply in love.

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    Oh, my.
    Nick, I am so sorry to hear this.
    Please accept my sincere condolences.

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    This IS terrible .
    You are probably in shock just now .
    That you shared with us , it shows the importance of this forum .
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    Nicholas,

    It has to be tough, especially since her death was so sudden. Take care of yourself and your family.

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    Nicholas,

    I am so sorry for your sudden loss of your beloved wife and best friend.

    My sincere condolences,

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    Most sincere condolences Nick.

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    That's awful! I am so sorry to hear this and thank you for letting us know.

    Peace to you and your family.
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    So sorry for your loss.
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    That's grim news.

    Commiserations to all those impacted.
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    So sorry.

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    Thank you for sharing. A terrible loss. So sorry.
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    I'm sorry.
    I hope in time you will smile more from her memory than grieve at her loss.
    I wish you peace.

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    What a terrible tragedy. So sorry, I can't even imagine. Thankful for your 22 good years together.
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    So sorry to hear of this. Please accept my condolences to all of your extended family.
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    Sad news, and our best wishes through the painful time.

    Sounds like great memories though, and that's everything, in the long run...

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    Sad news indeed--I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.

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    A very sad and sudden loss, mitigated by gathering family. I've no doubt you will support each other with love.

    Peace.

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    Very sorry to hear.

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    I very sorry for your loss Nicholas. An online forum is no substitute for friends and family, I know, but I hope that it helps to have our support even from a distance.
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    This is really sad - I'm so sorry to hear this Nicholas.
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    this is such terrible news. I am so sorry, and you and your family have my deepest condolences.

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    Dude… that is just ****ty. I can’t begin to imagine your feelings, but I send all the love I can muster to your entire family.

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    So sorry to hear this sad, sad news. Condolences to your family for this terrible loss.

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    My condolences to you all.

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    Oh Nick! I'm so terribly sorry, what awful news. Love and the very best of thoughts beaming your direction.

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    very very sorry to hear this nicholas
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    Oh My God! I am so sorry to hear that! Know that everyone on the Forum is behind you and your whole family!

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    So sorry to hear this, praying for you and hoping for strength for you.
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    Sorry to hear this news. My sincere condolences.
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    I'm tremendously saddened to learn of your loss and wish I could offer more than simply my sincere condolences.I hope the support of the community here brings some measure of comfort.

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    Oh Sweet Nick. So sorry to read this terrible loss of yours. Sincere condolences to you and your family. Big hugs from here.
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    Saddened to hear this.
    Condolences to you and all your family.
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    Sorry for your sudden loss, Nick.
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    I'm so sorry to learn of this. My condolences to you and your family.
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    ah heck...
    Nicholas, thank you for letting us know about your wife Gayle.
    being best friends and deeply in love....the pain is immeasurable.
    please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family.

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