Stop reading and just go buy this boat right now:
https://seattle.craigslist.org/kit/b...379528398.html
I don't know if anything really needs to be said here. If I had the capacity to take this boat on I would be on a ferry to Port Townsend right now, not sitting here writing about it. This is the boat you buy, restore, sail for a lifetime, and then pass on to your children.
More info here:
https://classicsailboats.org/tumlaren-knud-reimers/