I know. I know. It's fashionable. All the "cool" people are doing it. It's happened to me. I've seen it happen to others.
But please don't indulge in the uninformed, kneejerk response of "ad hominem" as a reaction to someone else's critique of your opinions, thoughts, and explanations. That is not what "ad hominem" means. Using "ad hominem" in this way is intellectually lazy, it's boring, and it short-circuits actual discussion by refusing to address the merits of the argument being presented.
Misusing "ad hominem" drags down the level of discourse in the Bilge (as if that were necessary!) and is, in effect, simply a dodge for those unable or unwilling to respond with a refutation and clear explanation, which could actually advance the discussion and help everyone learn.
So, please:
If someone tells you that you are incorrect, they are NOT engaging in an "ad hominem" attack.
Even if they tell you that you are wrong quite bluntly, or energetically, or even passionately--nope. Still not "ad hominem."
Even if they tell you REPEATEDLY that you are wrong--nope. STILL not "ad hominem."
Even if they tell you that your thinking is "idiotic" or "moronic" or that you are "making sh!t up" or that you don't know what you are talking about--nope. STILL not "ad hominem."
Even if you think they are repeatedly wrong, and unable or unwilling to assess their own beliefs, and they keep telling you (incorrectly, as you believe) that you are wrong--nope. STILL still not "ad hominem."
So, what DOES "ad hominem" look like? Like this:
You post: "There is a direct correlation between your political affiliation and the likelihood of you contracting COVID-19; Republicans get sick more often than Democrats."
I post: "You're ugly, and your mother dresses you funny."
THAT is "ad hominem." Did you note the distinguishing feature? Based on the rampant misuse of "ad hominem" in the Bilge, I bet some of you missed it the first time around. Here it is:
It is "ad hominem" because it attacks the PERSON and ignores the ARGUMENT.
A post that attacks the argument and the quality of thinking is NOT an "ad hominem" attack, no matter HOW insulting or offensive it is to you.
Thank you. That is all. Next week we'll take on the popular "straw man" defense, which is misused nearly as often as "ad hominem." Until then, fair winds and following seas, everyone!
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