I'm really happy for you that this is the only thread on which people are nasty to you. It's been my experience that on most forums, if you are as rude as you have sometimes been in the past, people respond in kind.
I don't recall saying you would dance on Obama's grave, but if you are not again mistaking me for someone else and I did make a mistake, I'm sorry for that.
I believe, with a little help from Spin and Keith, I now understand what you were trying to say. It's a little harder to understand how you could use your boilerplate on me by mistake, but if that's what it was, fine.
I certainly don't want to interfere if you want to hit the reset button, but you will have to overcome perceptions you've shaped by your past behavior, so don't expect immediate accolades, especially if you post boilerplate responses that give the impression that you are sneering at the people you are talking to and telling them that you don't think it's worth while to treat them as individuals with a specific history in their talks with you. That was a bad idea, and because it failed to acknowledge that your own behavior has fed the ill-will you've built up on this forum, it looked like you were blaming others for the problems you are having with people. As someone mentioned, it looked like you were plugging your ears and singing "naa-naa-naa" to avoid listening to others.
I appreciate that it can be difficult to dig your way out of a hole. The usual advice is to stop digging, and ask for some help, like a ladder.
And may I say, my goal in all of this discussion has been to elicit exactly the sort of thoughtful and personal response you gave me in the post I'm responding to. Thank you.