I’m only peripherally aware of your “conflict quote. Honestly, OR, this seems to be self-inflicted. I unclear why you were taking this so personally...
TomF nailed it with 'the best is... the one you will do'. I tell folks that if their routine is one they're pursuing 'because it's good for me', but...
I don’t remember a “first toy quote. I did have a stamped metal, red pedal tractor. We had a fantastic neighbor, who took a shine to me, and made me...